Self Inflicted State of Denial
By
Apurva Sanjay Malewar
There are people in this world who love to talk about how they have endured life,
To them life was a bitch, but they can really talk about how they overcame the profound pain and agony of living a miserable life. I wonder what it was that people had to endure to live lives of such pain and agony. If you let these mortal souls mouth away their events, you will realize that most of it was a lot exaggerated, and made up, in order to gain some form of pity from the listener. Such poor souls talk about being the victims of time, circumstances and events, and only shit happens to them every time. They fail to understand that decisions were taken by them… and they conspired people into being a part of them.
I really am amazed and profoundly mesmerized at such behavior. It seems that hell broke lose on these poor souls, They can come up with a lot of baggage and no intellectual stimuli, ruining their own life, basking in the glory of pain, agony and prejudice, taking comfort in pity, that people shower, in order to gain the attention of people around. And when that addiction hits you, you might as well spread your legs to get what you want. And that’ the truth, because that is when you feel that someone really cares, unmindful of the mere fact that, you are being manipulated to satisfy the selfish desires of man.
Sometimes I ponder upon the fact of ultimate stupidity and profound dumbness, that exists within the deep core of your soul…….. In my opinion and people around me, when there are hard times in life, normal people overcome those tough times, and emerge strong willed, not even more dumb, pathetically and ridiculously stupid. These are souls who I call as leeches as they love feeding off people, these low lying, uneducated, trailer trash, pieces of crap, will never understand life. To them it’s been an easy ride, but they would like to show how hard the ride has been. Sure…. You are the ones who have endured such times of profound pain, while people like us have been living a life like the bed of roses. Did I say uneducated to these mortal pitiful souls, yes, uneducated, but not illiterate, there is a difference.
Then again, there is so much of crying and cribbing in their lives; it’s like man that is enough. First, and always it’s the family, the separation has killed their desires to live, then it’s like starting a new life, the separation of a husband, then well, living a lonely life. I fail to understand the impulsiveness and the urgency with things. Why is only their life complicated, why can’t they get along with anyone, why cant these people take in positive criticism…… I fail and beg to understand. Anything said, can go against you, and anything said by them is the ultimate truth, and the way of life…. Wow, then why is everyone so prejudiced with them? The reason is because these people are stuck up. They live in denial and that’s their world.
They have friends who are worse then bad company, bad company can be seen and avoided, but when friends get manipulative, and try to play god, ruining the lives of people associated with the poor soul and the mortal being himself, it’s a bad situation. These people are not really friends, true friend are those who will be friends with not just you, but also people associated with you. But some people fail to understand that. To them their friends are the world best time killers. Unfortunately they fail to realize that these people are around only for a cause, to help themselves and feed of you.
People of such nature will understand in time, about people who care, and people who are just fair weather friends, they must believe and have principles in life, stop complaining and start working. Realize what you are worth it, You deserve better, there are people who care, listen to them not some friends who may not even give a rats ass about you in time…….. I hope you guys will learn….
Whatever happened to humility? Where has that gone, Instead we have Vanity, bad attitude and ugly desires and propaganda’s to conspire against people to get what you want. These sad people need a shrink, or maybe some form of self realization…. I hope and pray they do realize they are playing with fire. I hope humility sets in and they reach a compromise in life, with people or with themselves. Unless and otherwise, they will ruin their own lives.
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